October 6, 2016 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

We celebrate what we share rather than argue the unprovable. Our individual beliefs do not always have to agree in order to find community and common ground. Ours is a Jewish tradition of change, diversity and integrity. And, as Humanistic Rabbi Sherwin Wine once wrote, “Believing is better than non-believing.” [iTunes] Subscribe to the Podcast…

September 6, 2016 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

Human beings are the most powerful species on the planet, but this was not always so. In a fascinating exploration of our earliest origins through the evolution of modern society, Hebrew University professor Yuval Noah Harari’s bestseller delves into the origins of society, religion, economics and much more. Rabbi Chalom’s review also marked the relatively…

October 3, 2015 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

Taking responsibility is not easy, particularly when others prefer seeking excuses or spreading blame. Dignity and self-respect are children of responsibility, but so too are risk and failure. The confidence we find from taking charge of our lives flows through our actions to the world around us, transforming desire into will, and will into reality….

September 30, 2015 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

Forgiveness can repair relationships, and it can also be healing for both parties in the conflict. But can we learn to forgive ourselves? Guilt is a powerful emotion, and forgiving others can sometimes be easier than facing our guilt. If Yom Kippur is an opportunity for new beginnings, we need to start fresh with ourselves…

September 30, 2015 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

We want so much to control our lives, and our deaths. Yet experience teaches again and again that we may steer the boat, but we cannot control the current. Learning when and how to say goodbye — and when and how to accept death with dignity — is key to the art of living. [iTunes]…

September 16, 2015 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

As awful as human suffering can be, it can be even harder to suffer alone without understanding or empathy. The most basic step in overcoming conflict and isolation is an ability we evolved countless generations ago: to speak, and to truly listen. [iTunes] Subscribe to the Podcast directly in iTunes. [RSS MP3] Add the Kol…

September 16, 2015 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

No one is an island. We grow up in families and societies, and we learn the balance between mutual responsibility and self-actualization. In the space between obligation and freedom lies “help” – a hand we all need from time to time that gives us the strength to do for ourselves what we no longer need…

November 25, 2014 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

The Theory of Evolution transformed our understanding of the world and our place in it. And Charles Darwin knew it would; he held back publishing his ideas for many years because of it. Today we understand not only biology, but also culture and economics and many other human endeavors through gradual change over time and…

October 4, 2014 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

Without cosmic judgment, Yom Kippur becomes an internal experience – self-judgment and self-forgiveness. In moderation, both are healthy and important, but only if they lead to changed behavior in the future. In the negotiation between individual self-fulfillment and communal responsibility lies the dignity of proving ourselves to be good people, if we can live up…

October 4, 2014 chicago_kab@hotmail.com

The religious approach to life has been around for a long time. Believing that people, and only people, have conscious power to improve the world is a much more recent innovation, even if its evolutionary ancestors first appeared centuries ago. But people do terrible things, and some fight modernity and progress with all their might….